5/02/2009

HIATUS INTERRUPTUS

I haven't posted in more than a week, an unusually long absence. I thought I'd catch up.

STATE TESTING:

The 21st, the last day I posted, was also the first day I was involved with the CST's (California state tests). It's difficult. Not only do we lose instructional time for four days spread out over nine days of instruction,but we have many students absent from our classes. Between truncated periods (which tempt students to cut) and official make-ups and sophomore-only tests (the 10th graders have an additional fifth day of instruction), teachers like me are almost forced to adjust every aspect of instruction during this time.

It's not to say that I don't get some things accomplished besides administering tests. I catch up on grading, I plan the rest of the year's curriculum and I do in fact teach....somewhat. But 'teaching', in this case, consists of presentation without consequences. I don't want to give a bunch of assessments when anywhere from 10 to 50 percent of my students are missing from period to period. So I cover new material to some degree, but I have to build in time for absent students to play 'catch-up'.

THE BALLPLAYER:

And, to top it all off, my wife's family is in turmoil. My wife's nephew, whom I've posted about before, is reaching a critical point in his amateur career as a baseball player and much of our family life has revolved around it, to the point that it seemed prudent to me to go away for the previous weekend. Trying to stay married, and all that.

It's tough, because the kid (who at one point was leading the Big West in hitting) had a major setback. He picked up a particularly nasty flu, and as a precaution he was given a spinal tap to rule out meningitis. Only, they botched the tap, failing to seal it properly. This led to excruciating headaches, which combined with weight loss and lack of playing time, has pretty much left the kid a shell of his former self. He's still hitting around .350, not too shabby, but in college baseball that just puts him in the top 350, not the top 10. He's not been producing runs the way he was expected to do at this point, and has even been benched a game or two by his coach. All of this as a junior, with the major-league draft beckoning. His timing couldn't have been worse, and the kvetching and excuse-making and soul-searching on this end has gone on past any point where it could be helpful.

THE NUPTIALS:

Yesterday, one of my wife's best friends had a rehearsal dinner for her son's wedding. My wife's #2 son is the groom's best man. Today, we have a wedding. An outdoor wedding. And it's been raining in our neck of the woods. Oh, well. At least I don't have to park any cars, as the #3 son has been deputized to do. My job consists of dressing well and not bumping into the scenery, then leaving early for band rehearsal.

3 comments:

梁爵 said...

2020.03.10酒店工作深夜心聲:走到這一步是不是覺得有些無奈呢?"曾經"很多人跟妳心情是一樣的~!!
"現在"也有很多人和妳的狀況一樣~!!假設妳目前沒有男友...妳大概會因為經濟問題考量而入行了!!
首先建議妳...問自己一個問題吧~!!~這段感情...有沒有未來~?
靜下來想清楚的話...妳才考慮要不要去酒店上班~
PS:因為男友一定早晚會知道(如日夜顛倒 其他男生來電 收入增加 有時全身酒味...等)如果他有能力...妳何需如此??他知道了又不能改變什麼...除非他有能力改變妳的困境吧!!如果他能且有能力...那麼在決定去以前...跟他好好溝通一下比較妥當~!!或許他可以幫妳的!!夜生活表面看來光鮮亮麗...其實很多心酸苦楚是只有當事人自己清楚的!在這行妳更可以看清楚所謂"真實的人性"~!!
酒店打工其實那也不是不好...還是有些人在裡面得到成長的...即使是跌跌撞撞的長大!怎麼不讓自己被環境影響太深,怎麼在那種特殊環境中保護自己,妳自己要有一點最起碼的準備...不管是心理上還是生理上~!!還是建議妳把心態先調整好...然後才去投入這環境工作。
否則...有選擇...就要去負責!!。以後如果真的要去上班了...那請專心投入"賺錢"這檔事吧!!感情的話...工作以前的...可能都會失去!工作以後的...保證沒一個是認真對妳的~!!儘早賺夠所需要的錢...早日離開比較實在!!

梁爵 said...

2020.05.31酒店小姐的基本介紹跟工作內容背滿學貸信貸,優渥人生對妳而言好遙遠?快來哈囉舒壓,我在酒店上班的日子給自己一個機會,不敢來酒店上班-酒店打工的原因成就日收破萬高薪人生! 工作環境單純,安全更無憂。想脫貧?這次好機會別錯過。酒店上班-酒店兼職-兼差如何達成人生的第一桶金免繳保證金/免證件/不綁約。薪資超透明 月入10萬不是夢。服務: 安全面試, 最佳顧問, 單純保證, 安全呵護。一、酒店兼差不是一個複雜的工作環境?酒店小姐的收入有多少?有急用可以借支嗎? 職場須知 【酒店PT 】以一個〝單純〞陪酒的酒店小姐,一天的收入約3000~7000(不含小費)除非有〝額外〞的服務,一天可以領。而且只要做酒店工作,這些都是無法避免的「有人覺得做禮服店就賺很多,又不會出場,我都覺得是幻想。你不是模特兒等級的,哪間禮服店收?傳播工作與酒店工作有什麼不同傳播小姐與酒店小姐的工作內容其實大同小異,但在工作內容以外卻有許多的大不同,我來為各位做出2者不同的差異性,給各位做個酒店工作內容: 桌面服務,一般人通常會想偏,其實桌面服務是很簡單,也很單純的一件事。桌面服務有以下幾個要點: 看了很多篇酒店文,好像很少有男生寫經驗? 我是酒店少爺,在滿18歲那天開始上班雖然不是第一次進去酒店,不過以工作人員的身份倒是頭一次,有一些沒有接觸過酒店的姐妹來找我應徵酒店小姐的時候,我們談的都很融洽,實際上她們也很需要來酒店上班賺錢,可是後來卻沒有來上班,不是沒有休假?那個是有簽約的對吧? 不可違約?薪水大約多少?怎麼領的? 應該不是月薪吧? 女孩子去那裡上班會不會,這表示我還不夠好,而且不誨言的,我也希望收入可以增加!) 雖說酒店上班一個星期的收入等於一個上班族一個月二至三萬的薪水,新冠肺炎疫情延燒,讓酒店文化也成為民眾茶餘飯後的話題,一名女大生在《Dcard》分享自己酒店上班的經驗,也讓她見識到這個工作辛苦的一面,分享自己在酒店上班當酒店小姐的甘苦經驗。很多不懂酒店這環境的人,想來酒店上班、酒店打工、酒店兼差、酒店兼職,卻往往會被這八個問題所困擾著!在此酒店經紀琳琳姐為各位整理出以下幾點問與答,究竟要如何在第一天就上手酒店的工作呢?許多人都認為酒店是個複雜的環境,不過與現實社會的壓力相較,還是會有人選擇在酒店上班、酒店打工。

梁爵 said...

酒店打工【問與答】新進人員必須了解酒店上班內容
1問:沒有做酒店工作經驗,可以到酒店上班嗎?!
答:可以,我們有專人協助教導,從彩妝穿著到坐檯技巧,讓妳輕鬆月入10萬以上!
2問: 酒店上班酒量不好也可以到酒店兼差嗎?!
答:可以。對客人而言酒錢很貴的,我們也會教妳「閃酒」方法,若遇到酒量好的客人,我們可以排換其他公關替代。
3問:酒店小姐只是陪酒而已,是嗎?!
答:對。主要是桌面服務(如點歌、倒酒、桌面清潔等)。為維持包廂熱絡氣氛,與客人勾肩、搭背、摟腰是常態。
4問:有自由班或PT班嗎?!(酒店上班時間)
答:我們有適合任何族群的兼職打工班別。日上5~7小時、隨排2~5天、正/兼職、可試上。
5問:酒店職缺試做有錢領嗎?!如何領薪水?!
答:坐檯幾節實領幾節,可選擇「當日現領」或「週領」。
6問:酒店薪水怎麼算?!
答:時薪每小時1000~1200元起,讓妳月收入6位數不是夢!
7問:KTV酒店求職有年齡限制嗎?!
答:需年滿18歲。且主力消費男客為45~55歲,相較妳都算年輕。
8問:酒店公關條件會要求很高嗎?!
答:只要「不過胖」都可以試試,且現在化妝技巧會替妳加分,大部分公關都是入行後再調整,沒有「醜公關」只有「懶公關」。
9問:酒店應徵與面試時,該如何打扮?!
答:基本的社交禮儀,如去夜店的裝扮即可。酒店公關經理都是功力深厚,不要太誇張的素顏都可以想像妳裝扮後的樣子。
10問:酒店上班的「髮妝與衣服」該如何準備呢?!
答:各店風格不同,但都有「駐店」髮妝設計師,可以為妳量身打造適合的裝扮,且有提供「小禮服」讓你省去治裝的煩惱。
11問:面試完,當下是直接上班嗎?!
答:可以直接上班,但建議回家後先思考沉澱下一步,酒店兼職切勿急躁!
12問:酒店坐檯需要接觸毒品嗎?!
答:當然不能接觸違禁品,合法店家一切遵照法令,若有違反者一律開除不支薪。
13問:需要簽約或扣押證件嗎?!
答:不需簽約、不押證件、不簽本票。